All In My Head

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These flowers bowed down by snow seemed appropriate for this article about All In My Head, and an interview with the author, by Andrew O’Hehir in Salon:

All in My Head dramatizes Kamen’s suffering without wallowing unduly in self-pity, and her journey along the highways and back roads of both Western and alternative medicine, while often hilariously rendered, will provoke anguished cries of recognition from anyone who’s dealt with chronic pain (and the medical establishment’s general befuddlement by it).

. . . A Tired Girl may suffer from migraines or depression or chronic fatigue syndrome (now called CFIDS) or fibromyalgia or bipolar disorder or the persistent, mixed-headache syndrome called chronic daily headache (CDH), which is Kamen’s diagnosis. It’s quite possible she has more than one of these conditions; scientists are now inclined to believe that these ailments (along with epilepsy and other seizure disorders) are related at the neurological level, and people who suffer from one are exceptionally likely to have the others.

. . . I’ve had to question my own preconceptions about these stereotypically female ailments, especially as I’ve learned that new, more sensitive brain scans now seem able to pinpoint their neurological source. As Kamen explains, it now appears that disorders like migraine and CDH result from a kind of wiring malfunction deep in the brain stem. Migraine, for instance, was recently described by one medical researcher as "a chronic-progressive disorder that may cause permanent changes in the brain."

. . . Individual women can admit to pain and fatigue, she argues, without stigmatizing their entire sex. Hardly anyone argues that men should be excluded from the workplace as a group, despite their pronounced tendency to . . . random shooting sprees.

. . . This seems like such an important book to me — it connects the dots on this issue of women and chronic pain in a way nobody else has done, and it’s a remarkable personal story as well.

This sounds like a must-read for any of us who struggle with chronic illness, and the self- questioning and judgement that comes with it. The Salon interview with Kamen is worth the ad non-subscribers must get through to get to it.

7 responses to “All In My Head”

  1. Thanks for the head’s up. Looks like a great read. I love the part about the mind-wallet connection in alternative medicine. I’ve spent enough so far to buy a piano. I think a piano would have done me more good. <grumble>

  2. All In My Head

    It seems that mental disorders may be related:…

  3. i am currently reading All In My Head and i love it. I sometimes feel like i am the only person in the world who feels like crap a little bit of everyday. my family doesn’t get it and my boyfriend is starting to believe i lied about my age! i am 36 and i think he thinks i am 86 ! i almost feel empowered today knowing there are other tired girls out there, not that their problems make me happy…i just don’t fee so alone now.

  4. that last comment belonged to me, debbie. i just wanted to say that if anyone would like to chat or email and talk, i would love to hear from other women about how they are feeling. my social circle has dwindled signifigantly since i stay to myself morethan i used to. maybe we could form some friendships via the internet ! :0)

  5. Hi Debbie, welcome!

    You might want to sign up for a Chatango account — you can put the link in your email address, or even use it as a URL for comments like this one (I think you could, anyway.) I have an account, and a link on all of my pages, though I’m rarely signed on. But people can leave messages, even if you are not online.

    Also, check out the links on my sidebar — I think some of them might even have chatrooms on their sites.

    Thanks for stopping by; I hope you come again.

  6. I just wanted to add that I am reading All in My Head and it is a great book. I hardly ever buy books in hardcover but I am glad I did. Her sense of humor is mixed with wonderful research. I can relate to so much of it.

  7. I’m so scared that I can’t read through the entire article. I don’t want to catch up headeach any way. 😛

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